We aren't trying anymore. I am just upset because I feel like he has pulled the rug out from under me. This weekend he poured out every deep thought in his head and I am in a daze, not even knowing whats real with him. This is really an unknown for me, I was raised by two ACOA who had dealt with their childhoods, and when I found out he was an ACOA when we were dating, he never presented any of the issues we are having now. I feel like the guy I married isn't real, like he put on this politically correct facade and only now is showing me the true depths of how far is childhood hurts go. Every time we talk about it he reveals more and more about his childhood, about how he thinks he can't feel emotions, etc.
What do I do to support him in counseling, and how do I reconcile the differences between him before we were married and him now?