Originally Posted by
sillysquirrel 
So you see, AH would be more than willing to separate our finances, as you have suggested. However, he will have no part in paying for ANY of the bills.
It may serve you well to remember this:
In real life, if a person only works 1 or 2 days per week, that person doesn't have enough money for DishNetwork, beer, or reading light.
He sounds like an irresponsible child, and you are not his mother.
I'm sorry that you're in the middle of this craziness.
Big hugs to you, sillysquirrel.
-TC