Rozied,
My son has been to jail 3 times. After the first 2 times, I decided not to bail him out again. My ex did. My ex also had the nerve to ask me where our son got his bad habits. My ex is a full blown alcoholic who was getting high with our son. My son tells me that his father is a trigger for his useing, yet maintains a relationship with him because his father buys him things. His father is as toxic to him and my son has become toxic to me.