but there is a lot of this stuff that goes on in AA. They call in 13th stepping. You'll have someone with YEARS in the program do things they would never tell their sponsor about. The last few days do fall into that category - for him. I don't go to AA so I don't have a sponsor.
Katie - no one forced you to go out with this guy AGAIN.
I backed you last night - but you negated all that the minute you went out with this doofus again.
To blame AA here is ridiculous:
you made bad choices -
you went out with the guy again,
you decided to drink - no one else.
Love and Tolerance is an AA creed sure - but how much did you expect from a guy who bought you wine, for heaven's sake?
You'll meet people with this guys ideas on right to life *everywhere* - it's not an AA issue by any means.
You need to look at your choices and start making better ones, Katie. You need at look at personal responsibility too.
Dismiss AA outright if you like - but whatever you decide to do? do it without delay.
Make your next morning Day One.
D