hmbld, I feel for you, for me to leave him also means losing my job and also my home, which is part of our salary (we are husband/wife team property managers). Hired as a team, so no option of keeping my job/home if I leave him.
dgillz, I need 6 mos residency in the state that I live in b4 I can file for divorce, we just moved here.
It struck me the other day, I'm in a new town but it's the same old story...
Take care and be strong
