Are there any happy endings with an AH?
[FONT="Tahoma"]Hi, this is my first post but I have been lurking a couple months. I have 2 adorable young children with my ABF. He has been on pills/methadone/not-quite-clean for our entire relationship but I was naive at first (NO experience with drugs) and had no clue. We were living together but it got too bad and I told him he had to leave. He seems to be making some progress getting clean and owning responsibility for his actions. He says he plans on entering a short-term detox/rehab but he seems to think he won't need any other help - just needs his family around. I still love him but don't know if I am brave/foolish enough to take the chance of going through that again, especially since I became a master enabler. My children need their father, but they don't to be exposed to that lifestyle.
Any advice or experiences where this actually worked??[/FONT]:praying