the conversation went like this - he asked, I said I don't know, do what you want. He says he's only asking for my opinion. I say, I don't have one on this subject, it doesn't matter if he goes or stays. He seems hurt, and he told me once before that he feels I'm totally just kicking him to the curb. I say I'm giving him space to figure ourselves out, it's what we both need since our previous dynamic led us down a disastrous road. But I really want to say "grow some effin balls will you?"
I know it's an issue with my expectations, but it's tough to manage. How much of this do I accept as the real him, versus him in early recovery? Does it matter?