Welcome to SR,((myson)) I have a son who is an alcoholic, he is 39, also a daughter that I have a hard time dealing with. I have been finding alot of help and support here on SR. I tried dealing with my worry and fears alone, but realized I need support from others. I hope you will find what you are looking for here. As others have mentioned Alanon is very helpful also. You take care...((hugs))