Except the weird thing is she called my husband in & talked to him alone. She asked him if my drinking caused any problems. He answered honestly & said "have we fought while she was drinking, yes. Do I drink, yes." Then he said that I haven't drank in a couple of weeks that I seem to be seriously about wanting to change my life.
Her exact words to him were "theres nothing wrong with sitting around & having some drinks together, just don't let her drive"
Why would she ok it with him too?
She was in her mid-twenties at best. I felt a little weird because I am at least 10 yrs older than her, & she is justifying something that I have already come to terms with the fact that is not working in my lifestyle!