Thanks KJ. I just want reiterate though - that quote about going to rehab and whatever else it said - is not about my bf, I didn't write it. Okay, now I'm done with that.
Another thing I just reread in your first reply about my life spinning out of control. My life is not spinning out of control. His is. I have my feet planted firmly on the ground and am still living my life - and that goes for our son also. Yes, I have problems caused by him, but those are his problems, not mine. Now of course, I realize there are financial consequences, but I have my secret bank account and money stashed in the lining of my purse. I will always be okay. I might be sad or mad, but I know I am okay.