OK. It takes what it takes for us to be done with it. You deserve your process just like the rest of us had it. We'd hoped to save you from the painful drawn-out journey that we all took with our alcoholics/addicts. I hope and pray that you do not have as painful a process as some of the women (and men) on this site have had. Keep us posted, and if it doesn't go the way you hope, we'll be here to help pick up the pieces and listen.
Love,
KJ