ok, put on your al-anon hats:
how can i stop enabling the alcoholic?
he has a room here and a place to keep his stuff.
according to the law, i can't keep him out because we are still married.
he will not sign the papers because he wants to stay here.
it feels like a catch-22.
can't i just hit him on the head with an iron skillet? lol, i mean really.
i feel that there is something i am missing as far as MY behaviour goes...i am not feeling serenity here.