I know that's how it was for me. If I didn't decide that I couldn't live with the results of what I was doing and that I needed to change, then I don't think others could have made me change.
I opened this thread in this section of SR because I thought that if there was something I was missing this group would be the most likely to know.
I opened the thread with this line because I figured there wasn't some magic trick.
Originally Posted by
joinedintime 
I try to be positive and I'm usually pretty successful at it, but I'm thinking the answer is - True.
I am happy that I did though, because the support is good. I do appreciate it. Anyone else with input is more than welcome.