It's easy to get swept up in the emotion of addiction, the roller coaster of recovery and relapse.
This is so true. I must focus on myself so that no matter what happens, I will be ok. It's kind of like writing a living will. Always be prepared. It's just how I must live when I my life involves an addict.
It's important to remember that, just because an addict chooses to relapse, it doesn't mean I have to.
It's about protecting me and my family. It's about taking responsibility and not waiting for someone to save me, especially an addict who can't even save himeself.