We were talking about the future quite some time back. He was talking about us having kids and both of us being able to stay home with the kids every day. This just about made me want to hyperventilate. I mean, no matter how much you love someone, you can't be with them 24-7. I said I'd still want at least a part-time job or do volunteer work or something to still get out of the house. He was crushed and offended that I wouldn't want to spend EVERY second with him. Also, I have my own things that I do without him, but he wants me involved in everything HE does. He's an outdoorsman and he wants me to come fishing / hunting with him. NOT my thing. I've told him several times that those can be his "guy" things. It's GOOD for us to have separate interests. I think he "gets it", but doesn't FEEL it. If that makes sense.