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SERENITY BOUND 
. DO NOT and I repeat DO NOT let your bf make you feel that is was your fault. It most certainly was NOT. Addicts are very self-serving, they never admit that it was their fault.
i am REALLY TRYING to not believe that.. but he is in "treatment" and he learned that.. so someone out there told him that. i wrote him to get clarification. and also said again the three c's and that i am not the cause. we will see what he says.