Lots of good advice! Hugs and prayers to you. Welcome to SR!! Keep your baby safe and keep your ex away. The no contact order is a Godsend. If he comes around, you call the police. You can easily establish a paper-trail that will keep your ex from having anything but supervised visitation (if he even insists or pursues it). You don't have to do anything unless a court orders you to and I don't think he'll go there.