Originally Posted by Bjen

I don't even want anyone in my life as a relationship now. It's too much work.

I'm just mad the whole thing happened. I didn't deserve it or ask for it. I didn't even know what AA or Al anon was when I met him.... I guess. That's life and the things we learn. It has taught me a lot though. I am a much more understanding person and I don't judge people. (OK with the exception of the pedophile that comes in my office, I have a lot of trouble being nice to him.) But otherwise, I don't judge others. I've learned to live and let live and fully understand the power of the serenity prayer. I have it inscribed in a ring I always wear.