Thanks Smoke, I really appreciate you responding. I'm starting to feel tired, depressed. Now I'm mad because I haven't heard from him today and was hoping he'd call and reassure me of his intention to work the program. Nothing. I want to have a co-counseling session, "Focusing" with a girlfriend tonight, and I was hoping he'll tell me that he'll be at a meeting so we won't have any disturbances. I want to call him at work and talk to him about it and ask him about his commitment to recovery, but he probably won't want to talk at work. Plus, it's kind of loud there. I think my codependence is coming on strong, even though I'm still so angry. Advice?