It's a tough journey to go alone, have you considered AA? It's not the only way out there, but for some of us it is the best way. If you do go to a meeting, find someone who has recovered and considering asking them to sponsor you. They will lead you through the steps as they are outlined in the book.
AA's 12 steps are in the basic text titled Alcoholics Anonymous. These are precise instructions, that have worked very well for a long time when followed exactly. Good luck on your journey you will find plenty of support here, PM me if I can be of help.