I hung out recently with my sister and some of her friends that I don't see very often. She told me afterwards that they had commented on how "great" I look since I have separated (and since divorced) my ex. I haven't really lost any weight, but I have let my hair grow some and have been coloring it. I think I just smile and laugh more; and I know I am happier. The fact that these friends were of the male persuasion gave my ego a nice boost, too!