OMG Ann, that is so funny! "Tired of sucking in my stomach!"
That was the first thing I thought of when I read your post BayAreaPhoenix.
I totally agree with Ann as far as long-term is concerned. I just don't think that that much of an age difference would work for long.
My mom was 10 years older than my step-dad, but he was really mature and very quiet.
I think it would be ok for as long as it lasted, but again would be afraid we wouldn't grow old together, and certainly not at the same time LOL.
Hugs, Dev