Yeah. The young bucks love me, too. I'm in my mid-forties and just got out of a relationship with a man in his early thirties. It was the first time I dated a younger guy. I didn't like the age gap at all for me.
Early thirties is such a different time in your life, in my experience. I mean, my kids are 16 and 20, I'm almost done raising them, and I'm retiring in 5 years. I have a 401K, a home, a labrador. This guy was still deciding "what do I want to do when I grown up?" He wasn't sure whether he wanted kids "one day."
Granted, he was emotionally and developmentally stunted from his years of active addiction. But I think even a normal non-addict guy in his early thirties is still very different from a woman in her mid to late forties. I want an older guy next time, one who has some development and can meet me half way. But that's just me.
KJ