I daydream too - always have, long before I took a beer...but I get where you're coming from Fel - when daydreams become preferable to real life, you've got a problem.
Little steps and one day at a time are two good mantras here I think.
Real life *is* scary - especially to ppl like us who've run from it for so long - but just take it easy - no need to scare yourself to death...
I figure as long as we're not avoiding reality (or problems or responsibilities) or daydreaming of ice cold beers (thanks Astro
) we're doing ok
Balance is good
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