An unrecovered addict.... just because the drugs are gone, doesn't mean much does it??? I get this totally. This is what I what my kids are struggling with ... they tell me, "what's the big deal, Dad's not smoking anymore, so everything is fine... Don't know why you have a problem"... Actually picking up the joint, popping the pill... whatever is only the tip of the problem. It's all the damage that has been done. How come we get this and the addict doesn't... no recovery??????