My ex wasnt a drug addict but was very passive agressive (with computer addiction) and i've found that this personality type is so dangerous with my codie tendancies. My AS seemed to pick up a lot from my ex on how to treat me. Say one thing and do another or punish me when i didnt comply with their wants. I'm finding that I tend to be drawn to how this type of person treats me because of my own insecurities. I'm staying away from any men for now until i get myself healthy and strong - I would rather be alone then make these mistakes all over again.