I am glad for the update. I have been thinking about you lately and wondering how you are doing. I have always liked your shares. Like was said above, An addict that gets clean is still only a clean addict. Maybe if your RAB gets miserable enough he will attend meetings. I remember when I was in my late teens, early twenties going to a psychiatrist because my parents thought that I was depressed. Well after 9 visits she told me that I had good insight into myself and when I was ready to change my behavior I would. It took me a few more years to get the meaning of what she said, but when the pain of what I was doing to myself was more than I could handle, I made changes. Hugs, Marle