Originally Posted by
Lucy06 
Does that sound reasonable to you?
Very reasonable, Lucy.
Once, after venting on the phone for 1/2 an hour, a friend of mine said, "Mel, he's certainly taking care of himself - you'd be smart to take care of yourself, too."
Whoa.
What's in YOUR best interest? Your kids' best interest?
Do that.
You won't regret it.
-TC