Originally Posted by
Lucy06 
Truth is, I really don't see how I would manage having him back in my house.......
I am also scared of his reaction if I deny him a chance to rebuild our life.
Sheltering him and providing support after all the nonsense: NOT YOUR JOB.
If you don't think that you'll be able to manage 1.) the children 2.) the household 3.) the job 4.) his neediness
I'd say, opt out of the one aspect on that list that's an
option.
He probably won't react well.
My AH did not react well.
But he's still living, breathing, and (occasionally) drinking - which seems like what he wanted to do all along.
He's OK.
I'm better than I've ever been.
Keep us posted.
_TC