We came to this agreement after much MUCH discussion and me almost loosing my mind! The man wants us to live together still while he recovers.... I just don't know if I can do it! He said he needs his family for stability and that having stability is a big part of his recovery..... I kept trying to explain that we should not be together right now.....<pulling hair out>
What about your stability? What about your needs anywhere in that conversation? Sounds to me like it was me me quack me me quack.
There are umpteen places for him to go while in recovery, it's not so easy for you with the kids.
Selfish, manipulative, childish, and ...well, an alcoholic.