That is my mainfesto, I know if stick to it, which takes a lot of discipline, I can stay sober.
If I deserved the tough love/truth telling for anything lately, it is my lack of discipline when I know what will work and I have stopped doing it.
I have stopped doing it because change is hard, but change is necessary.
It can only be done day by day...wish me luck and be careful with any "advice".
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