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Old 01-04-2009, 12:10 PM
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Rotaris
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Join Date: Dec 2008
Location: Athabasca AB
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Need Advice from Female Side.

This is my second post, so bear with me.

I have been sober almost one year now. I am in a relationship with a girl that is in treatment (living together 6 months). She calls today and everything seems to be going well. She then states that she does'nt think that her problem is that bad. Pills, cocaine, and lots of booze. I am floored and do not know waht to say to her. She then states that while checking her cell phone that she got the "nicest" message from her friend (that she used to live/use with"hope you are getting the help you need") She should phone her back. I am sick to my stomach over this and need some adive on what to tell her. She says its not denial etc. etc. I don't think that I can tell her who she can and can't talk to or in this case is that o.k?

Sorry for ramble, not to good on computers.

Thanks for your help, and great site.
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