I don't know about anyone else, buit I am unable to go to a bar and not drink. It would be boring for me and I too tend to be critical of those who are drinking and having a good time. Not being able to sit in a a bar and not drink makes me feel like I am pathetic.
Unfortunately that is all my friends want to do on the weekends is go to the bar or to the casino where the alcohol is flowing freely there as well.
I don't even know how I stumbled upon this site, but I am glad I did, it is a place to come to instead of drinking. I keep waiting for someone to be mean or something, though, lol, and so far everyone has been great.
Thank you everyone!