Big pat on the back for coming to your senses and not being afraid to say you made a mistake in taking him back!! That is huge. It's OK to stumble as long as we don't stay down! All his bashing your family and bringing up vows (hello? where does an active alcoholic fit into the vows of marriage???) is just quacking - he may be sober but he is not in recovery if he is lashing out at you and blaming you & your family for HIS misfortune. Easy does it.
Bernadette, I was thinking the same thing! Thanks for pointing this out to me!
