(((((TooMutch)))))
Your starting to obsess again over something you have no control over. Please take some real deep slow breathes, at least ten. Now do it again. Slow your mind down and your pulse.
If he is in Colorado as you are, and if as an adult he straightens out his act the "Juvenile Record" will be sealed. What that means is if a criminal back ground check is done for employment purposes it will not show up, however, if he continues to get into trouble as an adult the police will have access to it.
This is part of HIS CONSEQUENCES for HIS ACTIONS. Please ask HP to watch over him and your sister.
On the brighter side, all this 'stuff' (screw ups and crime) coming up now while he is still fairly young, may be the BEST THING THAT COULD HAPPEN TO HIM, he has been caught early and it could just be the WAKE UP CALL this young man needs.
J M H O
Love and hugs,