Welcome to SR!
We do have a chat room, but I think it has set times when people are in there. You are welcome to post, like you did, and people can respond (like I did). It's a little slow, right now, but more people will be on in a bit, as they wake up.
There are several forums, and you are welcome to read and post on any of them. It takes a little getting used to, but there are some terrific people here, and a ton of support.
Hugs and prayers!
Amy