I told my Ah 1 month before I moved out. He took me shopping and bought me a new microwave and coffee pot and paid for my blinds.....he said if I saw things around that he bought, maybe I wouldn't bring any other men into my apartment!!!!!!!!!! Nice. That was a longggggggggg month. He never tryed to stop me or have conversation about it either. I guess he was thinking..party down and she'll be back.