Originally Posted by
LaTeeDa 
What do you want for YOU? Not what do you want from him. Not what do you want him to be/do/act like. Not what do you want FROM SOMEONE ELSE. What do you want for YOU?
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isitme- this was a very hard question for me to answer. I kept relating it back to STBXAH. You say you want a family. You can have a family of you and your kids- it's still a family. I have a family of me, dd, a dog and a hamster. It's not the family I envisioned growing up, but it's my family. That's only part of MY answer to that question. I have a lot of things I want for myself- mostly what I want within myself. If I can develop the inner peace and self love that I want for myself, then I know I can be a good mom. From what I hear- and what I'm beginning to believe- the rest will follow. . .