Originally Posted by
isitme 
Then my little 3 year old says.. I wish Daddy would stop drinking so many beers! I don't know if she just hears me complaining about it at home or what, but it floored me.
Please pay attention to this! Your 3 yo KNOWS daddy is drunk. No, she doesn't have the same understanding of this that adults do but yes, she does understand on her own 3 yo level. And she is learning that this is what adults do, this is how adult males behave, that this is what a husband does.
Do you want her to learn these lessons? Or do you want to break the cycle right now?