I have been wondering this myself, so thank you for your post.
I have been meaning to go for the past month, found a close by meeting on Tuesday nights, when ABF is at an AA meeting. But with the bad weather, and now a recent car accident that has left me without a car temporarily, I have not gotten there yet. Hopefully in January.....but I have been going back and forth on the tell/don't tell question.....and have not made a decision yet.