It's about YOU.
Disrespect? What do you expect from an addict???
It's about YOU.
Get defensive.
It's still about YOU. Not him, not his sh!tty behavior, not his disrespect.
Heck, if he disrepsects you so much, why is he living with you?
IT IS ABOUT YOU, YOU, YOU.
It's really hard not to get defensive with your responses, I come here for support b/c I am having a bad night and in my original post I am admitting that I am struggling with detaching from this tonight. I feel attacked almost from your responses. It is about me and it is also about him, we live together. I allowed him to come back through my own sickness. But since I know he is an alcoholic, and that I have chosen to let him back in my home, I am trying to detach and still work on me.
It is not only about me, not at all. It is hurtful to be disrespected and I came here tonight for some possible advice about now to not obsess about HIM.
I won't say anymore, my emotions are going everywhere right now.