He needs help...you need support.
Just don't do what I did. I waited too long..then left and went into full blown
alcoholism myself and into two subsequent toxic relationships.
In trying to escape the pain I created more pain...
Alanon is great..and Melody Beattie's books. She is terrific You can google pages
of her books and start reading.
And I agree..he can do his own d--- dishes!!!
Just be safe no matter what.....
