Rella.
You asked what i am doing for myself. I am starting to like myself, I am reading codependent no more...i love the book, i am posting on here and all of you have been great and amazing. I am starting to realize there is nothing I can do to help him but let him sink and hit rock bottom.
I have gone 24 hours without calling him, i know that does not seem like a long time but for me it is...I feel great...one day at a time...i am so proud of myself