Thank you NH. I just got off the phone with the ex again and suddenly he is well. He said she needs to go to the dr and get treated for the flu. I explained the dr said its viral meeds to run its course. We hung up. I felt guilty called back and asked if he wanted me to come get her he said no. IF she was sick, where I truly felt that she needed to be in my care then she would be. THis is regular childhood diarreaha and there is no reason why she shouldnt be in the care of her father.