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Old 12-20-2008, 10:02 AM
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Lilyflower
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Freedom and Denny both offer wise words to you Doreen.

He may show up, he may not. The thing you need to decide, because it is a decision you make, is whether you are going to spend the next few days/weeks worrying and stressing about what, if, buts and maybees or are you going to concentrate on what you can do to make your days more festive, loving, happy and full? This is the true meaning of detaching.

You are not in control of him, but you are in control of your mind and therefore the life and mini world around you - you create it with your thoughts and feelings, what you project you see. So do you want to see fear and stress or do you want to see happiness and joy? Start projecting what you want, then if he does turn up, call the cops and let the feelings go, get back to your happiness. Life is too short to be pulled by fears and worries, and other such negative energies.

Peace love and blessings to you
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