Originally Posted by
dor5711 
but now I have to worry about HIM surprising us again.
You don't
have to worry about it, Doreen. I used to think I had to worry about things - especially the alcoholic and his behavior, too, just to cover my bases. Today I don't do that. It is a choice to worry.
Hope you have a Merry Christmas - I know the first holidays after a loss are tough. ((( )))