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Old 12-20-2008, 08:08 AM
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Originally Posted by cassandra2 View Post

Jerk....And the sad thing is that he has so much control over me that I am sitting here feeling GUILTY for not going and picking up my baby.......

He cannot take from you, what is not offered. Only thing you can control, is your reaction.

Rule of thumb....if you feel guilty, you are being manipulated. Stop feeling guilty and manipulation is not efffective.
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