What's next? He puts you in the hospital with a fractured jaw or worse?
It sounds like this is a relationship of hopeful fantasy......that putting up with this crap willl prove to him that you are worthy of his love or some other such nonsence. He is nothing but pond scum of the highest order. Don't you deserve better than this?
You are behaving like a stalker and a doormat. You know what people do to doormats, don't you?
Take responsiibility for the way people treat you. Just for today, you will not call or text him or his family or his friends. Just for today, block his number and inbound text messages. Then repeat tomorrow and the day after and the day after.......Your emotional well being and life depend on your willingness and ability to eliminate people like this from your life.