Oh dear. After reading the descriptions I'm wondering how much of an emotional manipulator I am/was. Scary because some of them have fit me to a tee at times. I've used many of them at times with both my AD and exAH's. With my exAH's if they had a headache my woes were ten times worse living with them and I'd tell them. If they had a bad day mine was worse because of all they put me through. Of course if they were clean my life would be so much easier and if they loved me they would see that. I guess the guilt I put on them was just as bad.
Funny, until they were put in words I could see maniputalation in them but not in me and I've done every one of them trying to get them to change. More work on me needs to be done.
Thanks.