Originally Posted by
dixied 
She did "offer" me a chance to "supervise" visitation. No judge ordered supervised visitation. My son agreed to have that kind of visitation. I declined because I felt I was being used. Not good enough to babysit now but yet I was good enough to oversee visitation between my son and his child. I also felt it wouldn't be good for my relationship with my son...my reminding him he had to get him back on time, etc. I just didn't feel it would work out.
I am on the outside looking in on this issue, and what I picked up on in this particular paragraph had nothing to do with the child or the chance to have both his father and grandmother spend time with him in one shot.
I know when I went through my first divorce, my self-centeredness certainly didn't allow me to do what was best for my daughter, but rather I reacted out of my hurt and anger towards her father. Of course, hindsight is 20/20.